Do you want your toes to curl when you have an orgasm? Do you want to climb up the walls when you climax? Do you want all your neighbours to know when you hit the Big O?
Good sex isn’t something you can just acquire. You have to work towards it. But knowing the moves isn’t all there is to it. In order to have amazing sex you have to have the right attitude. You’re all that’s standing in the way of the best sex of your life. This goes for both men and women. So, if you want to have outstanding love-making sessions, read on!
1. Forget the stereotypes.
Ladies, forget about your stretch marks or the fact that you’ve missed out on your gym days. The person you’re with won’t care, not if they’re already naked in bed with you. Gentlemen, forget about making an impression and your performance anxiety. Sex shouldn’t be about showing off; it should be about mutual pleasure. So, instead of wasting all that mental energy on things that won’t give you satisfaction, focus instead on your lover, enjoy each other and have the most fantastic fuck of your lives.
2. Don’t fake it.
Ladies, don’t fake that orgasm. Find what works best for you with each partner and work together towards achieving pleasure. Gentlemen, if you don’t like the way someone gives you a blowjob, just tell them. Sex is all about guiding the other person over this new body that they are just discovering. Enjoy the trip.
3. Know yourself, masturbate.
Ladies, touch yourself. There’s nothing dirty about it. A nice orgasm will help you relax. Do it when you’re having a bath or just before you go to bed. It’s awesome and it’s the quickest way to learn what you love. Gentlemen, don’t just jack off robotically. Think about the things you’d love to do to your partner or the things you’d love to be done to you. It’ll make the sex so much better, having those thoughts in mind.
4. Watch porn, buy sex toys, experiment.
Want to find out the kind of things you could be into? Experiment with different kinds of porn, see what turns you on and don’t be afraid to buy some sex toys. While you’re at it, don’t forget that there’s all sorts of erotica out there: from literature to Tumblr blogs.
Once you know what you want, how you want it, and the fact that you want it badly, tell your partner, ask for it and find out what their fantasies are too. And if it doesn’t work, just drop it. Life’s too short to have bad sex!